The Dos
Please have patience during a reading. It is an effort for the spirit to communicate, and their effort needs to be acknowledged and respected. I know that you are eager to connect with your loved ones, but sometimes others from Spirit will come through first, (even pets) before the person you are looking to communicate with. Allow those other spirits the time to connect with you as well. They may have a message for another family member or neighbor or coworker that can be very healing to the person you relay the message to.
Take notes — you may take written notes during the reading. NO RECORDING of any kind is allowed. Do not record without my permission or knowledge. Some information you receive during a reading may not be recognized until later. You may need to check with other family members/friends to validate information that comes through in a session. You may not recall the information mentioned in a reading until afterwards. This is why it’s important you take notes. I have received emails and phone calls weeks to months after a reading from clients who have validated information given after the reading has taken place.
Trust — in Spirit and me. Let go and trust the process. Do not test the process but surrender to it. Have no expectations.
Be open and focused — to not only the evidence that comes during the reading but also to the process. Not all information is literal. Mediumship and psychic readings are not an exact science.
Give me your full attention — by sitting still and remain focused on the reading only. If you are having a phone reading, please do not work, walk around or talk with others during the reading. Find a quiet place and be still during the reading for the best opportunity to receive messages.
Have good intentions — to receive whatever may come during your reading. Skeptic or not, come with good intentions to the reading.
Breathe — just relax and enjoy the information that is being delivered. I suggest you relax a few minutes prior to your scheduled appointment.
The Don’ts:
Desperation — Some clients may come to a reading thinking they are open but actually have a deep sense of desperation and this can impede them from having a full experience.
Grief — Some come believing they are ready to receive a message, however, grief can impede the full experience and you may need more time to grieve to receive.
Demanding info — Telling Spirit what to say such as a code word prove it is really them…. Please Let your loved one take the stage and speak.